What can we do?

(Original appeared April 26, 2016)

We hear this question often and remain humbled by everyone’s generosity. For the moment, we are comfortable both with the gifts that have already been given, and the current situation at home and work. Yet, it’s difficult to say “no, thank you” to someone with a generous and giving heart. Deb and I are still considering our needs now and what we can anticipate in the near future so that we can better answer that question “what can we do?”.
We explained this to Jacob’s nurse, who we have built such a wonderful relationship with already, and asked her opinion. Her answer was simple and to the point, and really brought some serious perspective:Donate blood. For those who are touched and moved by our situation, this is a perfect outlet for that “donor” spirit. She mentioned that blood supplies are at an all time low. I thought for a moment about the several transfusions Jacob has already had so far, and what might have happened if there was no available blood for him. Well, let’s say I stopped thinking about it.
His nurse mentioned that blood can be donated in someone’s honor (for instance, in Jacob’s honor) which makes it a more personal experience. I can’t tell you that a donation will go directly to him (it probably won’t). But the idea that patients, and parents of patients, don’t have to worry about supply is very appealing. And so, for now we will answer the question “what can we do?” with the simple response: “Give Blood!”
Dupont Hospital has a blood drive every Thursday. You can also click here for more info: http://www.redcross.org/give-blood

We also reiterate our request that you take this opportunity to prayer with your spouse, children, family and/or friends. See our earlier journal entry here about that. Nothing would make us happier than having our journey inspire moms and dads to realign their lives and spend time with their children in evening devotions and prayer.